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Not picked to play on team (Charlie, Age 9)

Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Friendship Advice for Kids (K-8) | Oct 17 2026 | 00:07:03

Re-release of Ep. 125 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Adding to the fun | Friendship advice for kids

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*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

– What are some ways to pick teams that are fair and kind to everyone?

– Why is it sometimes hard for kids to be a good sport?

– How do you decide who to play with at recess? (Hint: What might make you choose to try to join one group of kids but not another?)

– Have you ever "started the fun" at recess? If so, what did you do? If not, what fun game or activity could you try to start with other kids?

*** You might also like these podcast episodes:

Ep. 124 - How to Join Kids Playing (Amelia, Age 8)

Ep. 98 - How to join a group when not everyone wants you in (Jessica, Age 9)

Ep. 7 – Emma, Age 11: Friend is a poor sport



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