What do we owe people who are not our friends? | 164
Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Friendship Advice for Kids (K-8) | Oct 03 2026 | 00:06:00

Ep. 164 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Avoiding empathy blindspots | Friendship advice for kids
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*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- Sometimes kids think they only have to be kind to people they know and like. What could you say to argue against that idea?
- What do you expect from a close friend? What do you expect from someone who is not your friend? How and why are these expectations different?
- Why would it be unkind to have a party and invite everyone in a group except one person? What could you do instead?
- What is an empathy blindspot?
- How might being mean to someone end up hurting you?
*** You might also like these podcast episodes:
Ep. 154 - Friends say she’s bossy, but they’re bossy (Lola, Age 8)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/friends-say-shes-bossy-but-theyre
Ep. 141 - Can we be friends with anyone? (Michael, Age 9)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep141-can-we-be-friends-with-anyone-michael-age9
Ep. 71 - Is she a friend or not? (Tali, Age 11)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep71-tali-age-11-is-she-a-friend-or-not
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